Talking Cannabis at Thanksgiving: A Respectful Guide to Family Conversations
The holidays are a time for connection, tradition, and, let’s be honest, a few awkward conversations. If cannabis comes up at the dinner table, just know that you don’t have to choose between dodging the topic or going full activist mode.
Whether you’re navigating generational gaps, curious questions, or lingering stigma, we’re here to help you navigate these moments with ease, honesty, and intention. In this guide, we’ll walk through five practical tips to help you talk about cannabis with family in a way that’s respectful, informed, and stigma-free:
Tip 1: Lead with Curiosity, Not Conviction
Instead of launching into a passionate defense of cannabis, start by asking questions. A simple: “Have you heard about how cannabis is being used for sleep or anxiety?” opens the door without overwhelming.
Avoid: Slang, assumptions, or overly technical language.
Try: “I’ve found low-dose edibles really helpful for winding down — it’s a lot more controlled than people think.”

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Tip 2: Focus on Facts & Wellness
Many older adults are open to cannabis when it’s framed around wellness. Share how legalization has improved safety, access, and education.
Example: “Massachusetts requires lab testing for potency and purity. It’s not like it was in the ’70s. Plus, there are a lot of brands that focus on the wellness aspect of the plant.”
Explain how cannabis today is about control, clarity, and care, especially when it comes to products like tinctures. Tinctures are a great entry point for those new to cannabis: they’re discreet, easy to dose, and known for supporting pain relief, relaxation, stress reduction, and sleep.

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Tip 3: Respect Personal Boundaries
Not everyone is ready to embrace the plant, and that’s okay. If someone’s uncomfortable, shift the conversation or offer to chat another time.
Reminder: Responsible use includes respecting others’ comfort levels.
Tip 4: Share Your Intentional Use
Sharing your personal experience helps normalize cannabis as a thoughtful, intentional tool rather than a taboo topic. It’s not about convincing anyone, but simply showing how the plant fits into your life with care and clarity.
Try: “I use a 2:1 gummy before bed. It helps me sleep without grogginess.”
Intentional use looks different for everyone. The most respectful way to offer a recommendation is by listening first — understanding someone’s needs, comfort level, and curiosity — then suggesting how cannabis might support their goals. Here are a few common use cases to help guide the conversation:
Cannabis for sleep: Coast Gummies 2:1

Cannabis for stress relief: Kanha Tranquility Gummies

Cannabis for pain management: Topicals mixed with cannabis

Cannabis for focus and creativity: Treeworks Hummies Focus Gummies

These products are designed with wellness in mind — easy to dose, clearly labeled, and formulated for specific effects. They’re great conversation starters for family members who may be curious but cautious.
Explore more: Ask our budtenders about effect-based products that support sleep, mood, and mobility.
Tip 5: Invite Them to Learn More

Sometimes the best thing someone can do is get informed. Suggest stopping by Elevated Roots to chat with a budtender, explore educational resources, or read the research that’s been done, supporting the positive effects of cannabis.
Final Hit
Cannabis conversations don’t have to be stressful. With empathy, facts, and a little humor, you can help break stigma, push the conversation forward, and build mutual understanding.
Want to learn more about responsible use? Visit Elevated Roots or explore our blog for tips, product guides, and community stories.